Are You Being Harassed During Your Divorce? What You Need To Know

When you are getting a divorce, one of the most frustrating things can be the harassment you receive from your spouse. Not all divorces will involve harassment, but it is important that you know the signs of harassment as well as what you should do about it should harassment occur. Here are some things you need to know:

What Is Harassment?

Harassment is a criminal offense that can result in a variety of criminal charges depending on the state you live in. Harassment can also result in a restraining order not only protecting the victimized spouse but also the minor children in the family.

During a divorce, harassment can come in many forms. Any communication between the spouses that involves threatening language or acts is considered harassment. Any obscene comments or threat of bodily harm is also harassment. Repeatedly calling a spouse after you have been told not to do so can also be harassment. If one spouse has another person contact their spouse on their behalf, this is also considered harassment and can cause criminal charges to be filed against that person as well. Publishing any negative or derogatory content online is also a form of harassment.

How Does Harassment Play Into Divorce?

If you or your spouse is guilty of harassment, it can impact the outcome of the divorce. One party in the marriage may receive a restraining order that requires them to remain away from the other spouse physically or in any other format. A harassment charge can also impact the judge's decision on spousal support and property settlements. In addition, if the harassment is egregious, it can also impact child custody. Harassment charges can also impact the life of the person who is charged with the crime, including maintaining a job or even a place to live.

If you are getting a divorce and you feel like your spouse is harassing you in any way, you first need to contact your attorney. You may be advised to call the police to file a complaint against your spouse. Make sure you can provide proof of the harassment. This can include phone recordings, voicemail messages, text messages, social media posts, video footage, and any other type of physical proof that can show your spouse is harassing you in some way. If anyone else has been involved in your harassment, be sure to provide their information to the police as well.

Talk to a lawyer if you need more information.